For some time I posted material here at HusbandsForHealing.com for husbands of wives recovering from childhood sexual abuse. I also posted material on moral purity. While I don't have those resources available now, we  have seen God do more with Theophostic Prayer Ministry than with any other single approach - both for husbands and wives when either is a survivor of abuse. I recommend Ed Smith's book, Healing Life's Hurts, as a place to start. You may want to look at my article on Theophostic.
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